Tuesday, September 3, 2019

Straight Chatting from the Library: Lili Naghdi

This post is part of a virtual book tour organized by Goddess Fish Promotions. Lili Naghdi will be awarding a $50 Amazon or B/N GC to a randomly drawn winner via rafflecopter during the tour. Click on the tour banner to see the other stops on the tour.


If you could apologize to someone in your past, who would it be?

To myself! I should have been more supportive of my own interests as a young person.

If you could keep a mythical/ paranormal creature as a pet, what would you have?

A phoenix.

How do you keep your writing different from all the others that write in this particular genre?

I am a physician with particular interest in literature, history, women’s health and psychology. I work with many people from different cultures and backgrounds, gender and age group. I try to base my stories on my experiences and I love to explore the emotional status of my characters at any given scene if I can. We live with our emotions and that is why we need to write about them.

What are the best and worst pieces of writing advice you ever received?

Best: Trust your readers.
Worst: Have a certain daily schedule to write.

Are the experiences in this book based on someone you know, or events in your own life?

Yes. Many of the people I came across in my life or worked with experienced these situations. Some of them also happened to me or to my family.


In 1972, Dr. Rose Hemmings has just finished her general surgery residency when a haunted stranger is shot in front of her in a New York City bar, and their lives become forever intertwined. And when, having been given the blessing of her adoptive father on his deathbed, Rose travels to prerevolutionary Iran to discover the past her American family kept secret from her, she finds a true Pandora's box. It is a world both foreign and familiar, in which her primary place is as the heiress to a great tribe. In Iran, Rose will find family she never dreamed of, her own people, and a man who loves her as passionately as he does the rare black roses of his garden. She will return to the United States carrying a new secret and torn between two men: the one she loves helplessly, and the one who loves her unconditionally.

Woven throughout with Persian poetry ancient and modern, On Loving is the story of one woman's lifetime of love and loss, of societal change in a nomadic people, and of overcoming personal challenges, including mental and physical health, to find true contentment. Above all, it is a story of love: its physiology, psychology and philosophy; the many forms it takes; its myths and truths; its challenges, its joys and its gifts.


It was almost nine when I got back. Kim had fed Layla and put her to sleep. I sent Kim home for the night, kissed Layla’s face good night and went to my room to change for bed.

Siyavash’s letter was still on the floor. I bent down and picked it up.

Inhaling the scent of the dried black rose, I wandered to the window and stared at the thin, even white carpet of snow on the street. Where do I want to be? I asked myself. Somewhere beautiful, calming. Somewhere full of life, with a boundless, vaulted sky above my head, perhaps!

I then closed my eyes and let myself being taken to Siyavash’s majestic rose garden in Isfahan. I could feel the breeze in my hair, could feel the warmth of the sun on my face. I remembered how Siyavash had looked at me with love and admiration there. I was blind not to see it then. I couldn’t recall Dean looking at me like that …

I opened my eyes and read Siyavash’s letter again, raking my fingers through my hair. Then, nervously rubbing my neck, I went to the phone next to my bed.

“Good evening,” I said when the other end of the line picked up.

“Rose! Is that … Is that you?” It was Siyavash.

“Yes, it’s me!” I paused and swallowed the lump that had risen in my throat. “Come back home! Just come back to me!”

I quickly hung up and rushed to the window, as if for air. Snowflakes were still dancing their way down to the ground.

My chest felt so constricted that I could hardly breathe.

Am I questioning Dean’s love for me? I wondered. Am I comparing it to Siyavash’s? But that was impossible! I shook my head. I’m just giving Siyavash a chance to redeem himself, a proper second chance. But the reminder to myself was pointless: the truth was something else, and I knew it!

I was at fault here. I was the guilty — guilty of blocking not only my ears but also my soul from hearing Siyavash’s voice, so ignorant indeed that my heart was finally reproaching me for my bigotry and cruelty.

I folded the letter and tucked it away in the drawer next to my bed.

I’ll know soon how I need to deal with him, I told myself. Or I’ll just have to find a way around it!


Lili Naghdi is an Iranian Canadian physician who was born and raised in Tehran. She continued her education and research after moving to Canada with her husband and daughter in 1996. Today she practices family medicine in Vaughan, Ontario, with particular interests in women’s and mental health. Being a family physician gives her the privilege of connecting with patients and participating in their care with a deeper understanding of the physical, emotional and social adversities they face. Interacting with people of many different backgrounds has also provided Dr. Naghdi with the opportunity to grow as a person, a physician and an author.

Growing up in pre- and post-revolutionary Iran, Lili became fascinated by the magical realm of literature, poetry and history. She began collecting prized quotations at the young age of eight. Dr. Naghdi has written poetry and short stories in both Farsi and English, but she eventually followed William Wordsworth’s advice to “Fill your paper with the breathings of your heart,” and turned to fiction.

On Loving is her first novel. Inspired by both the ordinary people she has the honor to support and by the great literature of Persia and the world — from Hafez to Forugh Farrokhzad and from John Steinbeck to Margaret Mitchell — Dr. Naghdi passionately agrees with Boris Pasternak, whose Yuri Zhivago is a physician and patriotic poet, when he writes: “Literature is the art of discovering something extraordinary about ordinary people and saying with ordinary words something extraordinary.”

Website: http://www.lilinaghdi.com
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Barnes and Noble Author Page: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/reviews/books/1130591456?ean=9781999497002
Videos of her book launch: https://youtu.be/iqMoLoKBRPI

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Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Loving-Lili-Naghdi-ebook/dp/B07NSJLJLZ


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  1. Hello Everyone,

    It is so wonderful joining you on another stop of my virtual tour today. I’d like to thank our host and Goddess Fish Promotions for giving me this opportunity.
    As you may find out from the blurb, “On Loving” is not only a love story but more importantly, it is a story about love itself, its physiology and philosophy, the many forms it takes, its myths and truths, its challenges, its joys, and its gifts.
    I would like to ask everyone this question, and I’d appreciate everyone’s participation:
    How do you define “LOVE” in your own words and based on your own experiences?
    “On Loving” is the story of one woman’s lifetime of love and loss, and the true meaning of love, and this “true meaning” could be different for different people.

    Thank you for your participation and good luck in the giveaway!


    Lili Naghdi

  2. Great excerpt & interview, I enjoyed reading them!

  3. "On Loving" is the title of the most beautiful love poem I've ever read by Forugh Farrokhzad. She was a controversial Persian poet and in her own way, a true women's rights activist. I dedicated this work to her loving memory.

  4. Thank you all for participating and good luck in the draw!
    I'd also like to thank our host and Goddess Fish Promotions for giving me this opportunity.